For simplicity reasons, I identify as gay (lesbian has never really rolled off the tongue right pun intended lol). I used to identify as bi-curious during y high school years, just to see if i had any attraction to the opposite sex...but to no avail.
I do however have asexual and bisexual tendencies
I also have a fascination ( possibly even philia) for transgenders and hermaphrodites as well. I used to sometimes wish that i was neither male or female but just...existing. Sex is irrelevant to me right now but i have a great aesthetic appreciation for the male and female anatomy. The penis is a beautiful thing but i really wouldn't appreciate one inside me.
However, it's something about females that emotionally move and attract something within me. I could go on but just to keep it short...im gay